T.J. Holmes Drops Bombshell Details From Insider Talks With Matt James

T.J. Holmes’ perception provides a brand new layer to the stunning break up, which James introduced earlier this month through Instagram.

Throughout the January 29 episode of their “Amy and T.J.” podcast, addressed the criticism surrounding James’ latest break up, admitting that whereas he sympathizes with him, he additionally acknowledges that issues might have been dealt with in another way.

“I’ll defend Matt, however I can defend Matt with out sh-tting on Rachael,” Holmes stated. “I can defend him and have my coronary heart exit to him with out taking something away from her expertise.”

Whereas Holmes understands that relationships are sophisticated, he didn’t maintain again when discussing James’ abrupt Instagram breakup submit, which caught Kirkconnell off guard. “If Matt was in entrance of me proper now, I’d say, ‘Rattling, bro, what had been you pondering with that [breakup announcement] submit? Why did you not give it a beat?’” Holmes stated, including that James may need a cause for his actions.

Holmes’ co-host Robach speculated that James could have had a sudden realization that pushed him to finish issues.

“Perhaps he had an aha second. Perhaps there was simply readability the place he thought, ‘You already know what? I don’t need extra nights like that. I don’t need days like that. I don’t need that,’” Robach theorized. “One thing needed to have modified. One thing needed to have clicked.”

She advised that James’ spending three weeks straight with Kirkconnell could have contributed to his change of coronary heart.

“Perhaps everybody ought to try this .. spend three weeks with somebody 24 hours a day. And also you may need readability that you simply didn’t have earlier than,” she added.

Holmes jokingly responded to Robach’s feedback by calling them “the perfect couple ever” since they spend a lot time collectively. Robach took it a step additional, suggesting they need to “go to the courthouse” and make issues official.

“Now we have withstood that check, nevertheless it’s a check lots of people don’t undergo,” she concluded. “I feel on the finish of the day, a 12 months from now or six months from now or 5 years from now, there will likely be readability.”

Holmes shared that James had overtly mentioned proposing to Kirkconnell and even envisioned their future collectively. “Matt clearly wasn’t fooling her or attempting to trick her,” Holmes stated, earlier than including, “I had loads of conversations with this dude.”

Holmes defined that now that Kirkconnell has publicly spoken out concerning the breakup, he feels extra comfy sharing what he is aware of.

“Now that she stated it, I really feel extra comfy saying it. He’s talked about marrying this girl. He’s talked about them having youngsters,” Holmes revealed. “He talked about it a lot privately. [I] had this dialog tons of occasions with this dude.”

These revelations make James’ abrupt split from Kirkconnell much more puzzling to Bachelor Nation, as simply weeks earlier than the breakup, he reportedly inspired her to begin engagement rings.

Kirkconnell addressed the break up on January 28 throughout an emotional episode of the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. She revealed that James in the end expressed doubts about their long-term compatibility, resulting in their breakup.

“He stated that on the finish of the day, there have been simply qualities about me that he worries about having in a spouse,” she shared. “There are issues that we aren’t appropriate with, and the entire accountability and saying sorry and all that was actually the primary factor.”

Based on Kirkconnell, James realized he wasn’t prepared for marriage, regardless of their practically four-year relationship. “I ought to need to suggest to you by this time,” she recalled him saying. “At this level in our relationship, I needs to be wanting these issues and I needs to be prepared for that. However I’m not. I don’t know if I ever see myself proposing to you. I can’t really see myself married to you.”

Holmes, nonetheless, presumed that James and Kirkconnell had been conscious of the challenges of their relationship.

“Definitely, a few of these issues have been on his thoughts and talked about [between them]. You’re at all times trying on the particular person you’ve been in with for a relationship,” Holmes continued earlier than shifting the main target to his personal relationship with Robach. “We’ve been collectively developing on three years now. I guarantee you, I’ve had loads of ideas about you being my spouse.”

With Holmes now confirming that James had been fascinated by marriage and youngsters, followers are left questioning what actually brought on his change of coronary heart.

Whereas neither James nor Kirkconnell has publicly responded to Holmes’ feedback, it’s clear that there’s extra to this breakup than meets the attention, and Bachelor Nation is right here for the drama.