Rachel Lindsay has damaged her silence days after finalizing her divorce from Bryan Abasolo.
“I’m divorced. Thanks, God,” Lindsay, 39, mentioned through the Friday, January 10 episode of her “Higher Learning” podcast. “Give me some freedom music. Some freedom music.”
After joking round for a minute, Lindsay grew to become critical explaining to cohost Van Lathan that it’s “a really bizarre feeling” to truly be divorced.
“From the second he lastly left the home, after being right here for seven months post-separation, I felt divorced,” she continued. “I’ll be trustworthy, there’s loads I wish to say.”
Lindsay famous that “from the start” she has wished to share her aspect of the story — however not fairly but.
“I haven’t talked, however I’ll and I’m simply figuring all that out,” she continued. “There [are] so many issues that I wish to deal with.”
Elsewhere within the episode, Lindsay revealed what “bothered” her “essentially the most” about how Abasolo was performing.
“On his finish, there have been sure issues that have been mentioned to play into sure stereotypes that actually have been hurtful or bothered me. … Saying issues that significantly play into the stereotype of me being an offended Black feminine,” she mentioned, claiming that “a story” performed out during which she “positioned a profession” over the connection and youngsters.
“These issues are emphatically so not true,” Lindsay mentioned. “To see individuals run with that as a result of it’s the low-hanging fruit and it suits a sure stereotype, have been actually hurtful.”
Lindsay and Abasolo, 44, met and received engaged throughout season 13 of The Bachelorette, which aired in 2017. He filed for divorce from Lindsay in January 2024 after greater than 4 years of marriage. After a messy forwards and backwards, which included particulars of their funds and the pair persevering with to dwell collectively, their divorce was finalized on Tuesday, January 7. (They didn’t have a prenuptial settlement.)
Us confirmed in July 2024 that Lindsay was ordered to pay Abasolo $13,257 a month in non permanent spousal help together with $20,000 in lawyer’s charges and forensic skilled bills. Their divorce paperwork, obtained by Us on Tuesday, share that Abasolo “waives, discharges and releases” Lindsay from “any and all” future funds. (She nonetheless owes him $460,229.)
Lindsay didn’t deal with any specifics of their cut up throughout Friday’s podcast episode however did say that there was a degree she needed to turn out to be “the larger individual” of their divorce.
“When somebody is combating you on this manner and prepared to die on each hill and never prepared to compromise in any respect for no matter motive they’ve — and [I’ll] discuss that later,” she mentioned. “You need to at one level let go and simply be the larger individual and prioritize what’s most necessary to you.”
Lindsay defined that she received to the purpose the place she was “making an attempt to maneuver on” and “needed to make concessions that I didn’t essentially wish to do.”
“My peace of thoughts is priceless on the finish of the day, and I actually wish to begin rebuilding, and I wish to transfer ahead,” she added. “I’m ready to try this now. And that feels actually, actually good.”
She concluded that she “wouldn’t get married and not using a prenup once more,” including: “It’s, like, modified my complete perspective on all the things. I don’t even know if I’d get married once more. I can’t even fathom that.”
Rachel Lindsay has damaged her silence days after finalizing her divorce from Bryan Abasolo.
“I’m divorced. Thanks, God,” Lindsay, 39, mentioned through the Friday, January 10 episode of her “Higher Learning” podcast. “Give me some freedom music. Some freedom music.”
After joking round for a minute, Lindsay grew to become critical explaining to cohost Van Lathan that it’s “a really bizarre feeling” to truly be divorced.
“From the second he lastly left the home, after being right here for seven months post-separation, I felt divorced,” she continued. “I’ll be trustworthy, there’s loads I wish to say.”
Lindsay famous that “from the start” she has wished to share her aspect of the story — however not fairly but.
“I haven’t talked, however I’ll and I’m simply figuring all that out,” she continued. “There [are] so many issues that I wish to deal with.”
Elsewhere within the episode, Lindsay revealed what “bothered” her “essentially the most” about how Abasolo was performing.
“On his finish, there have been sure issues that have been mentioned to play into sure stereotypes that actually have been hurtful or bothered me. … Saying issues that significantly play into the stereotype of me being an offended Black feminine,” she mentioned, claiming that “a story” performed out during which she “positioned a profession” over the connection and youngsters.
“These issues are emphatically so not true,” Lindsay mentioned. “To see individuals run with that as a result of it’s the low-hanging fruit and it suits a sure stereotype, have been actually hurtful.”
Lindsay and Abasolo, 44, met and received engaged throughout season 13 of The Bachelorette, which aired in 2017. He filed for divorce from Lindsay in January 2024 after greater than 4 years of marriage. After a messy forwards and backwards, which included particulars of their funds and the pair persevering with to dwell collectively, their divorce was finalized on Tuesday, January 7. (They didn’t have a prenuptial settlement.)
Us confirmed in July 2024 that Lindsay was ordered to pay Abasolo $13,257 a month in non permanent spousal help together with $20,000 in lawyer’s charges and forensic skilled bills. Their divorce paperwork, obtained by Us on Tuesday, share that Abasolo “waives, discharges and releases” Lindsay from “any and all” future funds. (She nonetheless owes him $460,229.)
Lindsay didn’t deal with any specifics of their cut up throughout Friday’s podcast episode however did say that there was a degree she needed to turn out to be “the larger individual” of their divorce.
“When somebody is combating you on this manner and prepared to die on each hill and never prepared to compromise in any respect for no matter motive they’ve — and [I’ll] discuss that later,” she mentioned. “You need to at one level let go and simply be the larger individual and prioritize what’s most necessary to you.”
Lindsay defined that she received to the purpose the place she was “making an attempt to maneuver on” and “needed to make concessions that I didn’t essentially wish to do.”
“My peace of thoughts is priceless on the finish of the day, and I actually wish to begin rebuilding, and I wish to transfer ahead,” she added. “I’m ready to try this now. And that feels actually, actually good.”
She concluded that she “wouldn’t get married and not using a prenup once more,” including: “It’s, like, modified my complete perspective on all the things. I don’t even know if I’d get married once more. I can’t even fathom that.”